Three Rules

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Not invited --> Don't go

Not told --> Don't ask

Late invites --> Decline you were never part of the plan you've suddenly become a convenience.

These three principles have become my steadfast guidelines. As I age, I find myself desiring fewer things, except for those that truly matter to me. My circle of acquaintances is shrinking, and many things are losing their significance. This also applies to "relevance," which I plan to discuss in more detail later.

When you no longer find yourself relevant to a particular issue, whether through self-realization or the judgment of others, you will encounter the circumstances dictated by these three principles.

I have sometimes violated these rules, and unsurprisingly, it has led to uncomfortable situations and self-regret. Thus, my conclusion is that, like it or not, you must make a choice and stick with it. I believe that adhering to these principles will simplify your life and grant you greater freedom.